TikTok content creator, Elizabeth Amadou, popularly known as Jarvis, has confirmed that she has ended her relationship with fellow influencer and live streamer, Hamzat Habeeb, also known as Peller.
Jarvis made the confirmation during a live video shared online on Tuesday, following public reactions to Peller’s recent car crash during a livestream on the Lekki-Epe Expressway in Lagos, which led to his hospitalisation.
Addressing online reactions to the incident and their relationship, Jarvis appealed to the public to stop mocking Peller, saying the comments were making the situation worse.
“It’s always people will mock me. Because I can see concern about this online. People will mock him, Stop mocking him. Stop shading him,” she said.
She said the crash should not be used to judge Peller’s character and maintained that she never presented him as a bad person.
Jarvis explained that Peller struggles with controlling his emotions, describing it as the main issue rather than deliberate wrongdoing.
“Yes, he cannot control his emotions. He cannot control. That’s the problem.
“I can control mine, but he can’t control his. We need to join hands together to help him,” she said.
Confirming the breakup, Jarvis said the decision was necessary and should not be seen as abandonment.
“Peller is a sweet guy, I do not even want it to even end but it has happened, it has happened.
“The relationship is not the thing now. It’s not saying let’s go back to who we were.
“The solution is let’s put our heads together to work on him.
“To be better. Not space of we not talking , it is space of this relationship thing. It is over for now,” the influencer said.
She added that the separation was meant to create space for healing and improvement.
Jarvis also called on supporters and social media users to stop spreading what she described as harmful narratives and mockery.
“Stop your shading. How is it helping? It’s not helping.
“Don’t use it against him. Encourage him. Encourage us. Help us. Stop using our pain to mock us,” she said.
Speaking on the emotional toll of the situation, Jarvis said the online reactions had increased the pain surrounding the incident.
She urged the public to focus on gratitude that no life was lost and said her priority was the wellbeing of both herself and Peller.
“All you people should be saying is thank God for life. Thank God for Peller. Thank God nothing happened to him.
“I love him, but for now we need to be okay. I’m not okay anymore. I want to be okay.
“He needs to be okay, he needs to be fine,” Jarvis said.
She concluded by noting that breakups do not always come from hatred but can be necessary to allow calm and clarity.
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